Achernar said..
Today, we didn't go anywhere on the boat.
Before anyone tries to kick me off this thread, let me explain. My wife and I had our first sleep-over on the boat last night. Because we are taking baby-steps, we did it on the berth in the harbour. If the worst were to happen, all we'd need to do is get in the car and go home. Thankfully, it didn't. Next time, we'll take the boat out and drop anchor overnight. The next time after that, we might venture a little further ... etc etc.
The first rule of boating is that if you scare the ladies, they'll never come back. So, keep it easy.
As an experiment, it was not a total success nor a total failure. It was nice to be able to get out of bed and stand up, which would have been impossible on my previous trailer-sailer (Austral 20, with the cabin roof at about chest height). You also get a different sense of space (or lack thereof), when you have more than one person sleep on board.
A footnote on ergonomics - the quarter berth on the Cavalier 28 is probably a really comfortable bunk, but it is a bit of a squeeze to get into. The best way to get into it is to sit and roll backwards - your head will pass through the cavity under the combing, which is set at just the right height for this mode of entry (the designer, Laurie Davidson obviously knew his stuff). However, because of all the fittings on the combing, including winches, there are a number of bolts protruding downwards, which will give your skull a nasty scratch if you don't duck down far enough. Not a problem on my boat, because a previous owner fixed the radio into the cavity under the combing, making it impossible to do the sit-and-roll-back manoeuvre. Unless your spine has been shortened by four or five inches. I'll need to relocate the radio, but I'll also need to do something with those bolts.
Agree 100% ... take it easy with the ladies
The quarter berth is a tight squeeze but very roomy once in there. I haven't slept in mine but been in there to clean and access the nuts that open up the skull.
I back in sitting up which seems to work okay.
Baby steps with the lady and you will have a lot of fun on your Cav