SandS said..
This bloke is living in the dark ages, now he's suggesting that apprentice abuse. Is still the norm !
Is it not? I don't know, I'm not a tradie. But I was a labourer once upon a time and was used to not getting all the cushy jobs, for sure. Longest hours, dirtiest jobs on the crew. You know, that hierarchy thing again. Maybe I should go back to labouring if things have changed.
I would put money on if I asked young grommie whether his feewings were hurt by the nasty buwwying, he'd say "nah, I'm right" and secretly be pretty damn stoked at being accepted into the group.
Maybe I'm the naive one in this new age world and dinosaurs like me and a few others are a dying breed. I was still glad to see it that day though.
As I said, others also got feewings hurt by being dropped in on. Two or three people intentionally dropping in on many, many waves. Guys pushing each other off their boards and tipping each other up. There were tears and screams of indignation and outrage all up and down the beach.
Grommie got tipped off a couple of times, board stolen and pushed away once or twice, he stole the thief's board briefly, dropped in on many times. He definitely got it the worst of everyone but how naive of me, I somehow missed his bawling and crying (but didn't fail to notice everyone else crying and stamping their feet).
Read the first sentence of that paragraph again. Is that bullying? What about the previous paragraph, when everyone was doing the same to everyone else? Is that different? Why? If he took it in good humour, does that change the outcome?
I kind of feel sorry for you, jb. Friends and mates play pranks on each other, all the time. You obviously missed out on all that. grommie was being included.
At no stage was he physically hurt or in danger. I feel like some kind of touchy-feely tree-hugger even having to explain this to the PC brigade.