Just found her stash 3 pills in the top drawer. Now what do I do??

Mine are all grown up. What are they?

'shelve' them like benny cousins..

Or tripple drop for maximum lulz.....

Educate her. Let her know that you know and by no means approve but that you're also aware that you can't stop her from experimenting. Make sure she is aware of the dangers and to keep her fluid intake right up. Gather up all the info you can and go through it with her. If you go ballistic you'll just piss her off and drive her away.
Dreading when my kids get into this crap, it never killed me, but we danced along the cliff edge a couple of times.

You also went through her top draw.... teenages have big issues with trust and privacy.... can't say I know what to do in that situation.... best answer will come from someone who has been in exactly the same situation as you and acted, with either good or bad results.... don't envy you

K Dog said...

You also went through her top draw.... teenages have big issues with trust and privacy.... can't say I know what to do in that situation.... best answer will come from someone who has been in exactly the same situation as you and acted, with either good or bad results.... don't envy you

Yep spot on Kdog, my Dad did the same when I was 17. It was pot but I was p!ssed that he had gone through my stuff. Caused a massive fight freaked Mum out etc. Wasnt a nice night in the kennel let me tell ya

Might want to point out that they are illegal. You might not necessarily think they should be illegal, but our government, being the representatives of our society and country, has decided they are, etc. etc.

Laws: like forum rules, except for real life...

I think three or more is considered dealing.
How much can she get a 10 pack for
my number is 0402 143 3ha
good luck mate been through that already
all you can do is tell them how dangerous they could be
you can't watch them 24/7 they'll do wether you like it or not

tell her friends parents and make sure they dont dob u in. Then her friends will get in trouble and you wont look like the bad guy. Also try and get her to get a new group of friends and she will change her habits. And if any of the pills there were white mitsubishis she is asking for death.

ok said...

tell her friends parents and make sure they dont dob u in. Then her friends will get in trouble and you wont look like the bad guy. Also try and get her to get a new group of friends and she will change her habits. And if any of the pills there were white mitsubishis she is asking for death.

Forget White Mitsubishis or any other kind
"Eccies" have not had any MDMA in them for a long while now as there is a major worldwide shortage. Most of them are amphet, or attempted amphet cooks gone wrong, Ketamine, all kinds of crap passed off as ecstacy.
None of them are safe

She needs to be told - really needs to - but how you are going to get past the fact you went thru her stuff I really dunno.
I like the friends parents being involved, make it sound like somebody has dobbed in the whole group maybe

Take some photos on your phone, show your local chemist- see if he can supply laxatives or an emetic that look the same.
swap pills and let nature take its course.

But like "OK" said, advising her friends parents sounds like a good move too!

I too, am pretty sure 3 pills classes her as a dealer- and is an open invite for the police to trash your home.

Something to also check- I think as far as the law is concerned- as a dealers residence- you could (in theory) forfeit the house. This particular law is aimed at big time dealers- not dumb kids with a couple of pills- but drug dealing is going to look bad on a resume or stop a police clearance for a decent job or career.

If you happen to be a licensed firearm owner- and drugs are found inside your property- its almost guaranteed that you will face an expensive fight to get your firearms back.

In my opinion, the drawer you searched is in your property and you are responsible for what goes on in the property.
Any betrayal of trust was by your daughter when she brought illegal substances onto your property.
You would not have searched for the drugs without good reason, after all its your daughters welfare and health you are looking out for.

stephen

lotofwind said...

e0422713 said...

swapped the pills........for safety
now what

Now just pray they werent her contraception pills you just swapped for asprins.

Hahaha classic

advise that they sould swap them for some other "much prettier " options from the other 96 on offer . Otherwise good luck wit thias can of worms (jeez i thought underage drinking and smoking was a serious issue with my teenage girls)

Mr float said...

advise that they sould swap them for some other "much prettier " options from the other 96 on offer . Otherwise good luck wit thias can of worms (jeez i thought underage drinking and smoking was a serious issue with my teenage girls)

Mate, if they're drinking and smoking, the chances of them already being exposed to weed, eccies or speed is there.
I've got a 3yo and one in the oven. I'm dreading the time when i've got to face this issue.
Not what i do/did but what i say

I thought id breach the mistrust when we found out she did not attend the party or the sleep over and came home the next day. 15 yrs old

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