This place is for fun - not for bullies

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wavelength
wavelength
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21 Feb 2013 4:17pm
I like this place. I come on for some laughs, some good info and stories and some great pics and vids. I like the camaraderie among genuine mates - and those of us like myself who just share an interest in surfing.
The only thing that spoils it is the occasional person who gets unnecessarily and overly negative, or abusive, or nasty in some sneaky way that is in fact cyber-bullying.
I don't always read the fine print on many agreements, but I read this today:
SEABREEZE MEMBER CONDUCT
You agree to not use the Service to:
... upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;
... "stalk" or otherwise harass another.
I think admin does a great job overall. On the one occasion I've used the little flag option to report what I saw as abusive behaviour (not against me), they quickly removed the comment in question and the response to it. Good on them. I've reported a second instance just now. See what happens. Perhaps we should all consider that option when we see it happening. Better than feeding the troll.
But i also reckon it's time that admin consider imposing a ban on members who really don't mean their “jokes” in good spirit, but who instead repeatedly use the forum to harass and bully others who are just trying to have a bit of fun and friendship. This behaviour is a clear breach of the agreement we all make. I say warn them once, then boot them off for good.
Anyway, time for a beer and then back to the Breeze for a laugh or two .
All the best, Dave
Tassiedevel
Tassiedevel
TAS
2249 posts
TAS, 2249 posts
21 Feb 2013 7:23pm
never read that Dave , the obscene ban is a worry

but agree this is a fun forum , no place for bullying or stalking

MickPC
MickPC
8266 posts
8266 posts
21 Feb 2013 4:28pm
Your right...& yeah, Its beer o'clock...Cheers Dave
wavelength
wavelength
1195 posts
1195 posts
21 Feb 2013 4:30pm
Tassiedevel said...
never read that Dave , the obscene ban is a worry

but agree this is a fun forum , no place for bullying or stalking




Cheers Tassiedevel and Mick
There's also a good bit where we are warned we may see offensive material. That's a plus. (And I should add that I like it when people have disagreements about stuff (boards, equipment etc) and I like it when peopl lay sh!t on eachother - as long as it's in the right spirit. it wouldn't be a great fourum without it.)
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
21 Feb 2013 4:32pm
Tassiedevel said...
never read that Dave , the obscene ban is a worry

but agree this is a fun forum , no place for bullying or stalking




ahhhh geez well I got nothin' then hahahaha cheers
doggie
doggie
WA
15849 posts
WA, 15849 posts
21 Feb 2013 4:36pm
wavelength said...

I like this place. I come on for some laughs, some good info and stories and some great pics and vids. I like the camaraderie among genuine mates - and those of us like myself who just share an interest in surfing.
The only thing that spoils it is the occasional person who gets unnecessarily and overly negative, or abusive, or nasty in some sneaky way that is in fact cyber-bullying.
I don't always read the fine print on many agreements, but I read this today:
SEABREEZE MEMBER CONDUCT
You agree to not use the Service to:
... upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;
... "stalk" or otherwise harass another.
I think admin does a great job overall. On the one occasion I've used the little flag option to report what I saw as abusive behaviour (not against me), they quickly removed the comment in question and the response to it. Good on them. I've reported a second instance just now. See what happens. Perhaps we should all consider that option when we see it happening. Better than feeding the troll.
But i also reckon it's time that admin consider imposing a ban on members who really don't mean their “jokes” in good spirit, but who instead repeatedly use the forum to harass and bully others who are just trying to have a bit of fun and friendship. This behaviour is a clear breach of the agreement we all make. I say warn them once, then boot them off for good.
Anyway, time for a beer and then back to the Breeze for a laugh or two .
All the best, Dave


Well done Dave, would you like badge or a chest to pin it on just sayin
Ted the Kiwi
Ted the Kiwi
NSW
14256 posts
NSW, 14256 posts
21 Feb 2013 7:36pm
well said WL. I agree.
doggie
doggie
WA
15849 posts
WA, 15849 posts
21 Feb 2013 4:37pm
Ted the Kiwi said...
well said WL. I agree.


Yep, me too Ted
Tassiedevel
Tassiedevel
TAS
2249 posts
TAS, 2249 posts
21 Feb 2013 7:49pm
thePup said...
Tassiedevel said...
never read that Dave , the obscene ban is a worry

but agree this is a fun forum , no place for bullying or stalking




ahhhh geez well I got nothin' then hahahaha cheers


no more bikes
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
21 Feb 2013 5:07pm
geez Stoke Armageddon
wavelength
wavelength
1195 posts
1195 posts
21 Feb 2013 5:11pm
After all, where would we be without etiquette??

DUDE said...






chrispychru
chrispychru
QLD
7932 posts
QLD, 7932 posts
21 Feb 2013 7:35pm


now where are my scissors
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
21 Feb 2013 5:36pm
...... & dragons
thommo 000
thommo 000
1670 posts
1670 posts
23 Feb 2013 11:48am
Tassiedevel
Tassiedevel
TAS
2249 posts
TAS, 2249 posts
24 Feb 2013 2:19pm
I could swear there was a pushbike on here last night
weiry
weiry
QLD
5396 posts
QLD, 5396 posts
24 Feb 2013 3:28pm
Smoke and mirrors mate
Tassiedevel
Tassiedevel
TAS
2249 posts
TAS, 2249 posts
24 Feb 2013 5:00pm
weiry said...
Smoke and mirrors mate


She was smokin alright , smokin hot
laceys lane
laceys lane
QLD
19804 posts
QLD, 19804 posts
24 Feb 2013 4:15pm
i can see what's happening in this forum relating to the sup page.


it was a fun place with the sport being so new. everyone was amped. so much was happening, new boards, smaller boards, paddles, fins, etc. we couldn't get enough of it.

as it grew things changed. trolls came,some too heated debates, pimping,just the pure numbers and then there were those with bad attitudes who think they are above and smarter than the average bear.

it will never be the same again.


so keeping the feel good is going to takes some work. those that detract need to be made known its not acceptable by all who care.



weiry
weiry
QLD
5396 posts
QLD, 5396 posts
24 Feb 2013 5:24pm
laceys lane said...
i can see what's happening in this forum relating to the sup page.


it was a fun place with the sport being so new. everyone was amped. so much was happening, new boards, smaller boards, paddles, fins, etc. we couldn't get enough of it.

as it grow things changed. trolls came,some too heated debates, pimping,just the pure numbers and then there were those with bad attitudes who think they are above and smarter than the average bear.

it will never be the same again.


so keeping the feel good is going to takes some work. those that detract need to be made known its not acceptable by all who care.






Just don't mention anything about
leg ropes
i cant believe i said that word
weiry
weiry
QLD
5396 posts
QLD, 5396 posts
24 Feb 2013 5:45pm
i think the seabreeze rules are good (BASIC commonsense ) and i brake them on occasions and so do a lot of people that think they don't" as for bullying i have never seen it and you would not last 5min's in here if you did, i know the powers to be let some things through to the keeper but 99% of the time they are onto it.
i truly think this place is respectful most of the time
Ted the Kiwi
Ted the Kiwi
NSW
14256 posts
NSW, 14256 posts
24 Feb 2013 6:53pm
well said LL. I think that we all know who most of the idiots are. So if we just ignore them hopefully they will go away
boofy
boofy
NSW
2110 posts
NSW, 2110 posts
24 Feb 2013 7:58pm
Ted the Kiwi said...
well said LL. I think that we all know who most of the idiots are. So if we just ignore them hopefully they will go away


Yep well said Lacey but Ted I think unfortunately the idiots if they are still being idiots and bullies at this stage of their lives will always be around , they are like the hyenas of the animal kingdom hanging around the kill with that stupid cackle but every now and then a big lion has enough and rips one in half
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
24 Feb 2013 6:22pm
boofy said...
Ted the Kiwi said...
well said LL. I think that we all know who most of the idiots are. So if we just ignore them hopefully they will go away


Yep well said Lacey but Ted I think unfortunately the idiots if they are still being idiots and bullies at this stage of their lives will always be around , they are like the hyenas of the animal kingdom hanging around the kill with that stupid cackle but every now and then a big lion has enough and rips one in half


spot on the coin ..........snarl
Tassiedevel
Tassiedevel
TAS
2249 posts
TAS, 2249 posts
24 Feb 2013 9:27pm
thePup said...
boofy said...
Ted the Kiwi said...
well said LL. I think that we all know who most of the idiots are. So if we just ignore them hopefully they will go away


Yep well said Lacey but Ted I think unfortunately the idiots if they are still being idiots and bullies at this stage of their lives will always be around , they are like the hyenas of the animal kingdom hanging around the kill with that stupid cackle but every now and then a big lion has enough and rips one in half


spot on the coin ..........snarl


laceys lane
laceys lane
QLD
19804 posts
QLD, 19804 posts
24 Feb 2013 8:36pm
i believe the decline in the sup room started when doggie and legion got in there.


probably just a coincident thou.



probably bound to happen anyway
Ted the Kiwi
Ted the Kiwi
NSW
14256 posts
NSW, 14256 posts
24 Feb 2013 9:43pm
I do miss PB though LL - he used to crack me up!!! How many boards did he want to know all about and have a position / view on but yet had never ridden one!! Used to crack me up. He was a ripper of a contributor in the old days. Legion still floats around the traps and posts occasionally. He is also on another common surf related forum but seems to be happy to be a second tier player on that one. That one can be pretty vicious - with a few personalities that do not hold back. I have always enjoyed SB for the simple reason that there are not the big headed idiots who seem to think that they can behave uncivilised because they have a keyboard and a screen. Lets hope it continues.
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
24 Feb 2013 6:44pm
laceys lane said...
i believe the decline in the sup room started when doggie and legion got in there.


probably just a coincident thou.



probably bound to happen anyway


geez fark me should get a Longboard up 'em eh Prez , vice Prez & Foreign Minister Lacey
asea
asea
QLD
5544 posts
QLD, 5544 posts
24 Feb 2013 8:52pm
Ted the Kiwi said...
well said LL. I think that we all know who most of the idiots are. So if we just ignore them hopefully they will go away


are you calling me an idiot ted
62mac
62mac
WA
24860 posts
WA, 24860 posts
24 Feb 2013 6:56pm
Name and shame the bully I say.
asea
asea
QLD
5544 posts
QLD, 5544 posts
24 Feb 2013 8:57pm
62mac said...
Name and shame the bully I say.


you wouldn't last 1 minute stand over bully
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
24 Feb 2013 7:01pm
say what







ahhh that's the shizz
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