Hi Mario
a lot of good advice has been given but I'll put my two bobs worth in anyways.
I think the ultimate nail has been hit with buying and learning to sail in a dinghy.
It doesn't have to be some fast type of 'professional' dinghy that you spoke of a number of posts ago...at this stage of your journey, it could be a bathtub with a mast. I'm not being derogatory, please don't think that....it's just you have to make a start somewhere...baby steps and all that. Any old clunker will get you getting the mast up, putting on the sails, getting the boat in the water, etc., etc.
Thence the fun begins with the
subtle nuances of how you move your body around the boat without tipping the thing over and getting wet...which, incidentally, you WILL do time and time again...and EVEN the best sailors do it. Why dinghies are the best way to learn to sail is that they do not forgive...there is no mercy on the hoomans who apparently are the masters of them. They point out to the hoomans, in words of less than one syllable that said hooman has made a mistake.
If you feel that the sailing/cruising lifestyle is for you, yes, as some-one said, there is no going back. Once it's in your blood, it's there forever. I learned to sail before I learned to walk. My late dad was a risk-taker and, despite doing what I now know to be foolish things,( e.g. playing a full main and no. 2 headsail , instead of prudently and safely just shortening sail in 45knots going across to moreton island in moreton bay when i was 15) i still love it and cannot get it out of my system. My poor husband laments (tongue in cheek of course..I think??) that he would be on to his 2nd or 3rd or 4th house if he hadn't met me and got the "bug" too!!
As for finding 'someone' along the track to share your life with, I think there are adventurous women out there, and you are certainly at an advantage being young yourself.
There's plenty of girls doing cool stuff these days like sailing, playing music, skateboarding, longboarding, surfing, SUPing, kitesurfing, SCUBA diving, travelling, the list goes on. There's plenty of pretty little twats out there gettin their acrylic nails done every week...but there's plenty of hidden adventurous gals doin stuff for themselves!!
If you're serious about the cruising life, there is only one way to own a boat and that is to live aboard. That way you and her become one. You learn to recognise every creak, every groan, if it's a good noise, if it's a bad noise...if everything be well aboard or if something is afoot. You and she will be as one.
Mario, you sound like a wise and a well-grounded young man. I'm glad you have your dream and I hope you realise it. You, along with my ten and seven year old daughters are the next generation of cruising yachties!!!! It is this forums' job to nurture you!!!


Trace