Thanks for telling us a bit about your preventer experience sydchris. cheers
I always use my main sheet traveller to let the boom out, but once I start releasing the main sheet, I always attach the preventer. It is rigged to go from the end of the boom to a turning block on the toe rail just forward of the mast and then back to a winch. The preventer always has tension on it so in the case of wind loading the lee side of the main, the boom is unable to travel any significant distance. I've never had an accidental jibe (gybe) in my existing boat but in a previous cat, (30 years back) the guy on the helm turned the boat and I ended up in the water with gash requiring 6 stitches above the eye. Luckily, the Wujal Wujal Aboriginal community was just up the Bloomfield River where we were attempting to head and the repairs, to the said head, were done promptly. Probably why I'm a bit anal about using a preventer all the time. A recent 3 day/night ocean passage with the wind about 30 deg off the stern and reaching 30knts wasn't a problem.
When I purchased my existing boat, it came with a boom preventer (picky below) and the the rigger I got to check out the rigging said throw the preventer in the bin - so I did. I could see his point of view. For my boat with a loose footed main, the preventer comes into play when the boom is under consider compression stress. To have a preventer pull from the middle could easily cause the boom to flex and bend. A boom, like a mast, is not designed for sidewards flexing. The mast has spreaders and diamond stays to overcome this problem. But the boom has none of these. Would you load up your mast if a spreader was broken - I think not. This is what I think is best for my boat, but in the end you need a system that works for you and you are confident with. It's no use having preventers if you don't use them all the time or fail to set them properly.
Cheers
(just how do you spell gybe (GB) or is it jibe (US) or what) I just read an article about why half the world has green navigations lights to starboard for port/channel entry, then the rest have them on the port side of the channel for entry. Gee I hope we never get visited by Aliens, they'll think were a mob of idiots.