heyjoe, "Hypocrite" - look it up.
You're digging for underlying motives and issues that just aren't there.
I like how people always have to steer the topic towards themselves.
Would you like to outline exactly where? All I'm reading is some users with differing opinions putting forth their views.
As far as I can tell no one is talking about themselves or trying to "self validate" them self and if they were it would be the people that are claiming they are "surfing" for whatever reason that would be, although I don't believe they are doing this either.
The topic steered away from what was originally asked for a few reasons, that doesn't mean it is wrong or we shouldn't do it... This a forum and discussion can change direction at anytime, that's the whole reason for having a Forum and not a Question and Answer type setup.
The real problem was the original Post in this thread was poorly worded to begin with, the title of the thread asked one question while the text of the thread said another... this didn't help the direction the thread went, because no one really knew for sure what he was asking.
Obviously some people in this thread are at a disagreement and a debate has arisen, this is normal forum behavior and usually what you do in a debate situation is try and convince people in some way that what you are saying holds value or is correct. So I think you should start getting used to stuff like this you plan on reading much more internet dribble because internet-wide this is pretty common place.
I suggest for people like you (if you post in the future) if this kind of thing (people getting off topic) really annoys you that much, make sure you structure your first post as a short concise question. This will help eliminate miss-interpretation and hold back the meandering off topic that is bound to happen on the internet for at least a few posts.
Just some of my self validating thoughts

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