Gorgo said...T one said...
to live is to push boundaries, otherwise its just existence...
they dont have to be other peoples expectations, but surely every time you kite, you wanna be a bit better at it??? i sure as hell do...
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I don't think about it. I always concentrate on what I am doing at the moment and how much fun it is. Over time things ramp up and stuff happens and the excitement level builds. Usually a session happens when I think how fantastically good everything has worked. I don't actively do anything to push any boundaries. I just have fun. The boundaries take care of themselves.
That really applies to most activities. You hear of musicians trying and trying to come up with something new, and failing. Then they relax and get into a groove and make some mistakes and recover and something new comes out of it. It happens time and time again in the arts and sciences and even in sport.
Yes, it's true that musicians can
sometimes come up with new things when they relax, jam and not try hard. But they can also come up with stuff when they concentrate/focus and work on it.
Are you saying if i go to school/uni and i just have fun and not work hard, eventually things will ramp up and I will gain necessary skills and graduate and get degree etc...? (Wow).
Of if i'm in a job, and i just relax and chill out and enjoy it, i will learn equally same as opposed to actually putting my back into it, setting goals, and committing to the tasks and trying to improve my skills etc??
Sure, i agree if you have fun, and relax, and enjoy kitesurfing, over time you will naturally gain more confidence, skills, experience etc... but the person working hard on it will improve faster and learn more things.
Nevertheless, everyone has their way. If you are happy with your approach you should stick with it. That's the most important thing. I'm happy with mine, and wouldn't do it any other way. The feeling of satisfaction and achievement when you finally nail something you worked hard on is priceless.