The silent treatment

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youngbull
youngbull
QLD
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QLD, 826 posts
25 Mar 2013 12:52pm
Sometimes not enough can earn the silent treatment



FlySurfer
FlySurfer
NSW
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25 Mar 2013 2:55pm
needsalt said...
Would be only too happy to apologise if I could only figure out what I have done wrong



You might have done or not done something last year.

If you've done something wrong; apologies + presents.

If you know what you've done and you think it aint wrong; double silent treatment, make your own food, come home late and iron your own clothes.

If you have NFI WTF her problem is, a good ...., and she'll usually tell you afterwards.
sn
sn
WA
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sn sn
WA, 2775 posts
25 Mar 2013 12:20pm
FlySurfer said...
If you have NFI WTF her problem is, a good ...., and she'll usually tell you afterwards.



ummm.... Fly, mate, needsalt is the sheila, the silly silent one is the bloke

stephen
Pugwash
Pugwash
WA
7733 posts
WA, 7733 posts
25 Mar 2013 1:18pm
Perhaps he just needs a new board and there is some kind of blockage...

Maybe you could buy him one??? (as long as it is not one of those square ones that have those long strings attached to them)...
needsalt
needsalt
NSW
385 posts
NSW, 385 posts
25 Mar 2013 5:11pm
In my experience, it is usually buying too many boards that gets me in trouble

You guys crack me up. I'm going to get all my advice here from now on

It is actually a male friend I was worried about when I asked this question. A woman at work also upsets lots of people by randomly freezing them out. I'll try the flowers, massage and pants dropping and let you know how I go
sn
sn
WA
2775 posts
sn sn
WA, 2775 posts
25 Mar 2013 2:33pm
you do realise that Mark and Doggie will need photos-

[purely for research and reference purposes of course]

sameh
sameh
WA
310 posts
WA, 310 posts
25 Mar 2013 3:19pm
i will selflessly volunteer my time if you require a role play partner.
doggie
doggie
WA
15849 posts
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25 Mar 2013 4:47pm
sn said...
you do realise that Mark and Doggie will need photos-

[purely for research and reference purposes of course]




I was going to put that up sn but it sounded creepy, but thank you for that
stuk
stuk
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894 posts
NSW, 894 posts
25 Mar 2013 8:45pm
beerdead
beerdead
NSW
433 posts
NSW, 433 posts
25 Mar 2013 10:49pm
Go out with the girls and stay out late.

That'll jolt him to talk to you.

If he's that sensitive, then he's probably insecure as well.
Bazinga
Bazinga
QLD
63 posts
QLD, 63 posts
25 Mar 2013 10:37pm



Sorry does not mean that much anymore. People say it without being truely repentant for what they have done. Sorry is misused all the time and have effectively become meaningless.


I am sorry you feel that [}:)]way......
cisco
cisco
QLD
12365 posts
QLD, 12365 posts
26 Mar 2013 8:51am
If he is giving you the silent treatment, doing the same back will get you nowhere.

If you keep talking to him nicely but genuinely (don't lay it on too thick), he will eventually crack.

Police do this all the time when interviewing people. They just keep talking to them until they can't help themselves from responding.

It has been two days now and even I have trouble holding out much longer than that.

Don't let him get a whiff of an idea that you have been discussing this on Seabreeze or you will be in big trouble.
cisco
cisco
QLD
12365 posts
QLD, 12365 posts
27 Mar 2013 12:24am
It is three days now.

How long can you last???
kk
kk
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kk kk
WA, 953 posts
27 Mar 2013 10:30pm


Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
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WA, 23651 posts
27 Mar 2013 10:48pm
needsalt said...
It is actually a male friend I was worried about when I asked this question.


Whoa hang on, it is not your bloke?

Well geez the answer is obvious.
Move to WA and let us help you.

(don't listen to SN and Doggie who make it sound creepy, it is OK... honest)

needsalt
needsalt
NSW
385 posts
NSW, 385 posts
29 Mar 2013 12:07am
Hehe... best suggestion so far
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
28 Mar 2013 9:18pm
So I take it no flowery things , no nice massage & no good classy wine & food as yet and no hehehe's
Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
23651 posts
WA, 23651 posts
28 Mar 2013 9:20pm


needsalt said...
Hehe... best suggestion so far


needdirections needsalt?
thePup
thePup
13831 posts
13831 posts
28 Mar 2013 9:20pm
Mark _australia said...


needsalt said...
Hehe... best suggestion so far


needdirections needsalt?



AquaPlow
AquaPlow
QLD
1066 posts
QLD, 1066 posts
28 Mar 2013 11:31pm
That blunt but very human series
Making Couples Happy - ABC
is out on DVD now
book some time (in desperation use a post-it note on the mirror)
and watch together ....

Still silent - then he has lost his voice and suggest seek medical advice
Cheers

AP
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