evlPanda said...
Does anyone support a family on an average ($~60K) income, just dad or mum working?
How the **** do you do it? Serious question.
Yep, 3 kids <9yo, and that (60K) is with both incomes combined (I'm self-employed, wife works 3 days a week casual). We live in a very inexpensive city - have inexpensive tastes (just back from 8 days camping). We've never been overseas & it's a big cost to drive to Melb for the day or 2 (once/twice a year)...we're still saving for that big holiday (2-3mths) around Aus with the kids, and will do one day. At the moment we're enjoying our kids. When they're all in school, we hope to step it up again and get some savings under our belts.
In saying that, we're lucky to have worked hard for 15 years & tried to set ourselves up. I had a joinery business whilst my wife was 'Home Finance Manager' for one of the big banks. Our social life was catching up with friends at home for a bbq (and still is) - bought our 1st house (2 b/r), sold it a few years later & rented it out for a few years before selling it to buy an investment property. We're lucky to have been able to invest in property when we did, although we don't make any money out of them (they only pay for the loan repayments, fees & maintenance) but when we retire, we hope to be able to cash in on them.
A few years ago we decided to drop back, I closed the doors & went back to school full-time for 2 years (3 hours drive to school every week & 3 nights accom very nearly sent us broke), my wife dropped 1/3 of her salary for a job where she could spend more time with the kids & away from sales & targets. Now she's looking at dropping to a lower bracket to suit school hours.