felixdcat said...Sailhack said...latedropeddy said...
Big eeeZeee I think about that all the time. Ever since the arrival of my son it has certainly changed my attitude to work/life balance with life definitely winning.
Same, amazing how the birth of my 1st kid made me decide to not work as much & spend more time with family (self employed at the time)...and to be honest, it didn't make a negative impact to my business' income.
Sounds good, what is the secret... work less and charge more?

Ummm, to be honest, I'm now employed!

Basically I was working 60+hrs per week without break, making mistakes, not spending time assessing costs, no budgetting, prob put off a lot of prospective clients because I was so involved in my work I couldn't relate to them...all of the above.
Once my kids were born, I started saying NO, and my clients respected my reasoning, so I still got the work, was able to stand back & look at where I was going and make smarter decisions.
The old saying work smarter, not harder rings true - if you are a smart & hard worker, there's no reason you can't do it. Btw, re; the answer to the perfect balance - as we know, perfection is always out of reach, so you need to make the decision when you've reached a target balance...don't try to overreach!