I have a yacht for sale that would be perfect for what you describe.
Its a Sparkman & Stephens 39, bigger sister to the S&S 34 - also a great boat for what you describe.
I learnt to sail with her for the last 3 years - very forgiving vessel for inexperienced hands.
You want a boat big enough and heavy enough to be comfortable when the sea-breeze kicks in.
As it always does in summer. Bigger the boat the better.
This vessel has a 50% balast ratio and is therefore very stable.
The S&S 39 is very difficult to round up so is very safe ocean going boat.
Has a mast hinge so you have the option of storing her in a river pen - much cheaper than ocean pens.
She has done the Syd to Hobart 6 times so pretty sturdy !!!!!
I'm looking for 60-70K
see add on boats on line
http://www.boatsonline.com.au/boats-for-sale/used/sailing-boats/sparkman-stephens-39-s-s-39/124842I've bought a bigger more expensive yacht for commercial purposes and am therefore a very motivated seller.
PM me or call if interested.
Whether you like mine or not the concept of a yacht, from a quality of life perspective , is the best decision I have ever made.
Go for it.