Thanks everyone for the great advice, much appreciated.

Yes, I flew an 11m yesterday, I didn't feel uncomfortable on it or out of control, but I did realise I was very powered up and hence I did not fly it for very long, I packed up
before it became uncomfortable for me as I knew that if I wasn't careful things can always get out of hand in those conditions with the size kite I have; safety is
always my first priority.
I won't say who I had my lessons through as they may not like it that I was compared to rsc (man, that was below the belt iti

)
However, I had my lessons with a very reputable school, safety was always stressed, always, and I have taken that away with me.
As I have said, I am trying to develop my knowledge & hence skills so I can participate in this awesome sport in a safe & controlled manner, which is why I asked the question about the wind speed yesterday, so I could compare and evaluate my experience from that session with the knowledge of other more experienced kiters.
Part of my question about the wind speed related to the fact that I was out on Monday arvo & there seemed to be more sand flying about than yesterday, and I was flying fully powered up on Monday quite comfortably.
It was mentioned that asking questions could open you up to sledging; I don't believe anyone was having a go at me, my comment about sledgers was purely based on the fact that if someone is asking questions, they are showing that they want to learn.
I hope it hasn't come across that I haven't been listening to the advice, because I have, very seriously.
If you don't ask questions, you don't learn.
I appreciate everyone who has taken the time to respond to this thread, I've taken everything onboard that's been said.
And it's great that I've recieved advice that I didn't expect, but is valuable stuff to know.
Thanks guys & good winds to you all!