Losing the passion

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graceful
graceful
WA
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WA, 773 posts
9 Feb 2012 8:19pm
Never thought I'd say this but after 5yrs of kiting I think I'm getting over it.
Might be the poor season Perth has had, might be the same old metro slop who knows.

Has anyone one else had a " change of heart" only to find the stoke again one day?
Heaps keener to travel south for a paddle these days when I used to love charging down wind over paddling any day before hand.
Adrenalin Rush
Adrenalin Rush
QLD
876 posts
QLD, 876 posts
9 Feb 2012 10:41pm
13 years in now and I remember a few times when I fell into a similar hole. I feel the thing that opened it back up for me was diversity. Don't concentrate all your efforts on one style, one brand, one location, mix it up in every way possible as there are so many options and extensions that Kiting can provide.

These days I partake in every genre of our sport, and to be honest have found what I believe has created a life long passion for my sport. I just got off the water this arvo from a sub 10knot Raceboard session by myself, working on techy stuff like perfecting technique, duck tacks and jibes.

Mix it up, and have fun enjoying the water and the freedom we have.

Joe
Torch
Torch
WA
521 posts
WA, 521 posts
9 Feb 2012 8:45pm
+1
Charl dv
Charl dv
WA
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WA, 2485 posts
9 Feb 2012 8:48pm
I went through that last summer.
What got me stoked again is doing a few different sports, started wakeboarding a bit more than i usually did, started skating a bit and started surfing again. came back into summer absolutely frothing to get out for a kite, it's just a shame about the winds really...

combinations of different styles and different sports will keep your interests.
TurtleHunter
TurtleHunter
WA
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9 Feb 2012 8:52pm
+2
eppo
eppo
WA
9789 posts
WA, 9789 posts
9 Feb 2012 8:57pm
Yeh I know how you feel, been there.

To add: Firstly make sure the kite/board combination's are the very best for your style. Set some goals each year to achieve a certain set of skills by end of season. get out of your comfort zone, this way you will get that adrenalin rush you got for the first couple of years. it is also good to land hard now and then and hurt a little like in the first couple of years (trying a new skill set) - appreciate again what kind of power you have in your hands!!

Sometimes I just kite without thought, if ya get my drift. get in the moment rather than thinking about what's going on in your life (which you can after you've mastered the basic skill set). Appreciate your body and mind floating across the ocean, don't take it for granted. I call this soft sessions, whereby and choose to obtain 'flow' and grace rather than smash the crap out of the face of a wave. In these session I will find myself choosing certain moves without pre-planning - sometimes can end in tears, but when ya get into the zone, time passes without you noticing.

Yeh mix it up and appreciate what you got! hope this helps
Elroy Jetson
Elroy Jetson
WA
706 posts
WA, 706 posts
9 Feb 2012 9:21pm
Just get married Graceful.

The value you attribute to that 2 hours of freedom on the water will go up exponentially.
Oris
Oris
WA
127 posts
WA, 127 posts
9 Feb 2012 9:38pm
Firstly we need to change your name Graceful.

Secondly you need to attempt things you haven't done.

Like jump a pier, remove your safety gear, kite in thunderstorms etc.

Good luck Graceful.
GreenPat
GreenPat
QLD
4103 posts
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9 Feb 2012 11:57pm
Oris said...


Like jump a pier, remove your safety gear, kite in thunderstorms etc.


I've seen his gear, I don't think any of it is safe.
graceful
graceful
WA
773 posts
WA, 773 posts
9 Feb 2012 10:07pm
GreenPat said...

Oris said...


Like jump a pier, remove your safety gear, kite in thunderstorms etc.


I've seen his gear, I don't think any of it is safe.


Coming from the guy that's been riding the same gear for how many years now pat? Haha
harry potter
harry potter
VIC
2777 posts
VIC, 2777 posts
10 Feb 2012 1:11am
Elroy Jetson said...

Just get married Graceful.

The value you attribute to that 2 hours of freedom on the water will go up exponentially.



This is so true.... A few of my mates now married absolutely froth at the prospect of having a kite even when it's marginal wind and sloppy chop.
Freddofrog
Freddofrog
WA
522 posts
WA, 522 posts
9 Feb 2012 11:41pm
graceful said...

Never thought I'd say this but after 5yrs of kiting I think I'm getting over it.
Might be the poor season Perth has had, might be the same old metro slop who knows.

Has anyone one else had a " change of heart" only to find the stoke again one day?
Heaps keener to travel south for a paddle these days when I used to love charging down wind over paddling any day before hand.


um, why do you feel you have to stick with kiting?

Of course everyone on a kiting forum will tell you otherwise but there are heaps of other things to try. imho life is too short. Go try something totally new. The other weekend I tried downhill mountain biking for the first time, and it was AWESOME!!! . Not saying you should also give it a go but go try something different, you might find something even better.
graceful
graceful
WA
773 posts
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9 Feb 2012 11:58pm
Not feeling like I have to mate, just wondering if other people have hit a "flat spot" with kiting.
Got plenty of other hobbies, motocross , road bikes and just signed up for my accelerated free fall course :))
Freddofrog said...

graceful said...

Never thought I'd say this but after 5yrs of kiting I think I'm getting over it.
Might be the poor season Perth has had, might be the same old metro slop who knows.

Has anyone one else had a " change of heart" only to find the stoke again one day?
Heaps keener to travel south for a paddle these days when I used to love charging down wind over paddling any day before hand.


um, why do you feel you have to stick with kiting?

Of course everyone on a kiting forum will tell you otherwise but there are heaps of other things to try. imho life is too short. Go try something totally new. The other weekend I tried downhill mountain biking for the first time, and it was AWESOME!!! . Not saying you should also give it a go but go try something different, you might find something even better.


Spitfire
Spitfire
WA
398 posts
WA, 398 posts
10 Feb 2012 12:31am
Elroy Jetson said...

Just get married Graceful.

The value you attribute to that 2 hours of freedom on the water will go up exponentially.



Time on the water is awesome...where would you rather be.
Plummet
Plummet
4862 posts
4862 posts
10 Feb 2012 3:36am
yes the others are correct. its all about the learning curve. once you have pushed as hard as you care to. then you stagnate and get bored. You need to push a new limit. find a new style. theres plenty of different styles to choose from.

try some land kiting perhaps? get a buggy or board and skid around on the sand. the extra fear factor of smashing yourself into the hard sand may give you extra zing.

also you can't beat new kite speed for extra stoke. buy a new kite!...

mix it up with other sports. i also mountain bike and longboard skate. you may want to leave the kiting to the supreme days and do something else on the cropola days.
Knickers
Knickers
WA
257 posts
WA, 257 posts
10 Feb 2012 4:29am
Hi Graceful.
Feeling pretty much the same as you, its my 6th season (Does the first one count when you couldnt get on a board?!), so similar stage as you.

I think its a combo of poor seasons back to back, less stoke at the newness, busier life making it harder to get out, not progressing, spots crowded and full of wally's.

I also miss the social aspect that was there 5 years ago- when you knew everyone at your local and usually spent half your beach time catching up with kite mates. Its weird now when I dont know anyone on or off the water at my spots

A new board and new kiting partner I hope will be the start of a resurrection of the stoke for me, and maybe a late windy season with decent swell
Joe Cron
Joe Cron
NSW
450 posts
NSW, 450 posts
10 Feb 2012 8:35am
Lousy kiting summer, lucky to have had a handful of sessions.

I'm finding it's difficult to remain enthusiastic about something that I'm not getting the opportunity to do often.

Maybe that's contributing to your current mindset also.
keke
keke
12 posts
12 posts
10 Feb 2012 7:33am
I say you all need to winge more on the internet, you know lack of wind, wax wont stay on board and especially about the wallys all that are going to lose access for us, might bring that extra bit of thrill for you.
Freddofrog
Freddofrog
WA
522 posts
WA, 522 posts
10 Feb 2012 8:01am
.... accelerated free fall course :))


Very nice....now that would be a serious buzz.

moons
moons
WA
349 posts
WA, 349 posts
10 Feb 2012 8:43am
Just quit and give all your gear away,... to me
austin
austin
671 posts
671 posts
10 Feb 2012 9:11am
I've found myself going through the same sort of thing.......mainly due to the shocking busy beach's in Perth, choppy slop, lack of swell and a series of two bad years. My advice would be just leave the city mate, Perth's enough to get anybody down, everytime i go back up north im frothing all over it . Once relocated back to G-Town i'll be killing it again

Im still keen to do the run out to rotto and back one afternoon to lighten it up a little. done solo adds that element of excitment.

Forget the leighton ----> trigg DW'er.....why would you want to do that??? short boring and unexciting. Try Rockingham to pinnaroo then your talking. spice it up with scabs to lancelin if your feeling brave.

I had far more fun in the winter down here, nothing like braving the biggest squally storm, taking massive drops, looping or going massive or throwing huge slow rotations off of a 6m swell. Not the best conditions NO, but its all about the isolation real man vs water. Winter has SO much to offer.

Just a few of the things i have on the boil to keep the light alive

Its not you losing the passion, its that theres no passion in a souless city

NR
NR
WA
517 posts
NR NR
WA, 517 posts
10 Feb 2012 9:12am
With risk to be shot down in flames, what about learning windsurfing as well. A lot of guys do it as its a lifetime of learning and the diversity of windsurfing is huge. From flat water crusing, racing, flat out speed, wave sailing, jumping and freestyle. Its a sport that is never really mastered and its what keeps guys pushing and pushing to do it. Its a bit easier on the body than kiting so something that you can do for a long time. So if you enjoy a challenge, and don't mind going back to the drawing board and learning a sport all over, get into it. Do both sports, different tools for different jobs. Have your orange and your apple. It keeps the stoke up.

Ok, now fire away.
Gorgo
Gorgo
VIC
5124 posts
VIC, 5124 posts
10 Feb 2012 12:30pm
12 years later, still keen. I might get a bit jaded after kiting 5-10 days straight but after missing a day I'm good to go again.

My basic skills are excellent but I am nowhere near close to mastering all the things I want to do.

I am currently loving my Sector 60 raceboard. Blasting fast upwind is a hoot. On the return downwinder, riding along in gently powered conditions, carving off waves all the way back is a beautiful way to finish the day.
wishy
wishy
WA
1501 posts
WA, 1501 posts
10 Feb 2012 11:11am
If you don't like it....leave....and then I glassed him!
Gorgo
Gorgo
VIC
5124 posts
VIC, 5124 posts
10 Feb 2012 2:48pm
NR said...

With risk to be shot down in flames, what about learning windsurfing as well. ...

Ok, now fire away.


He could do that, but everything you can do windsurfing you can do kiting and all the gear fits in the boot of your car.

I can think of only a few things you can only do windsurfing:
- launch where there's no beach or the beach is crowded.
- bob around on a floaty boaty board in ultra-light winds.
- ride in mega storm conditions where launching a kite would be potentially suicidal (sort of on this one)
- errrm????

Feel free to do other stuff but you need to go to the other stuff forum to ask about that.

As well as kiting I paraglide, cycle (road and mountain), surf (badly), play music (piano and guitar), hang out with the missus.

Paragliding is awesome but you have to be very committed to do it, especially if you don't live near a decent mountain or tow strip.

Cycling is pleasant but not exactly fun (compared to kiting etc)

Stuff like motocross can be fun but you've got to go somewhere to do and deal with motors and fuel and ****.

In terms of bang for buck kiteboarding wins hands down. I can do it almost every night of the week through spring, summer, autumn and every weekend in winter. I don't have to travel more than 10 minutes from my home.
Saffer
Saffer
VIC
4501 posts
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10 Feb 2012 2:54pm
Why are you idiots trying to push him to get back the passion. We should be pushing him to lose the passion to lessen the load on our kiting spots.

I'm more interested in:

1. Do you remember what triggered off your losing of the passion and how can this be applied to other member of the kiting community like show ponies, douche bags and tourists who don't abide by local kiting guidelines.
2. What is the best method to ensure the passion does not return?
surfingboye
surfingboye
NSW
2707 posts
NSW, 2707 posts
10 Feb 2012 3:01pm
Get another hobby.
Between dirt bikes, surfing and kitesurfing I am never bored on the weekend.



It doesn't look this new anymore!!!

djdojo
djdojo
VIC
1614 posts
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10 Feb 2012 3:10pm
"Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself, or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge." Viktor Frankl
sorse
sorse
NSW
509 posts
NSW, 509 posts
10 Feb 2012 3:26pm
I think safe to say we all go through it at some stage.

I've been kiting for 12 years and pretty much full on with lessons teaching and working in the industry. Gets real hard some days particularly if the weather is bad..

Best thing is to take a little break, I took nearly a year off to hit the snow and do something different, came back better then ever.
In the last twelve months I've never ranked so highly in competition so much happier in the water and trying to relearn some of the old stuff I'd lost.
Old school is fun to try again :)

I think the secret mix it up and make sure your having fun, and nothing beats a good ride and brag session with your mates ..
GreenPat
GreenPat
QLD
4103 posts
QLD, 4103 posts
10 Feb 2012 2:27pm
graceful said...


Coming from the guy that's been riding the same gear for how many years now pat? Haha


Touché. Point conceded.

It's the 8 year anniversary of my first lessons this month (and my mid size kite is almost 5 years old now). I haven't felt any of my reduction in passion has been 'losing' it: there has been some natural attrition, but I was a bit over-obsessed with it in the beginning.

Same as the others, I'm still trying new things all the time. I still haven't decided if I prefer a TT or a surfboard either, so I split my kiting about half and half between them. That adds to the variety a bit.
Pugwash
Pugwash
WA
7733 posts
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10 Feb 2012 12:28pm
Try this... Should keep you interested:

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Everyone smashes it or gets smashed in this one

If you are sensitive to "the cruelty of nature" - might be best to avoid this one







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