Looking back at a nice lady...

To look or not to look, that is the question.
For example, if surf conditions are crap, I might go for a SUP (paddle) on the river. Lots of ladies go walking along the tracks on the bank.  I know I have a good optic nerve (perve) or a Captain Cook (look) at the good ones. 

But lately, I've noticed a couple of "incidents" where blokes have decided not to look back at the other side of the package (lovely lady)! Do they know what they are missing out on, or are they conforming to this new age political correctness?

I know I'm guilty of usually always disguising the dodgey look back, by looking at clouds and buildings at the same time... Or pretending to look at traffic, or decide to try and cross the road, look for a break in traffic, and maybe decide against it. But at least you had a look back...

As males, should we not look back, or should we semi conceal the look back... Or just look back!?

Is it un-Australian to not look back?

I think short glances, and short 2nd look is complimentary to the lady that they are probably both in good shape and dressed nicely for the occasion, without needing to actually say it... (?)

no law against looking (at least that's what I tell the Mrs Ados).

Definitly no harm in harm in looking. Hell mrs Woodo does more looking than me sometimes!

As long as it's not a "seedy" prolonged stare i don't see an issue with it. When someone does that to my Mrs when we're having a stroll they usually cop a mouthful...

GypsyDrifter said...



(my 2 cents worth)

Ed on im like a Mongolian racing duck. Too much gym work, not enough speed circle work on the chassis, no staying power so classification is him all big buggerup.[}:)]

i'm always amused when females wear low cut tops, practically inviting you to have a good look, then have that look of annoyance because you are looking. pretty funny i reckon

Nearly crashed into a parked car on West Coast Drive this morning, just about THE most perfect body I've ever seen. I even zipped up the next side street so I could go back for a second look.

My old man always used to whistle at the ugly ones on the side of the road in the work truck. His theory was that they were the ones that really appreciated it and that everyone deserved to feel good about themselves.

The Gold Coast like Lacey said above is the weirdest place I have ever been and i live here. Girls dress up and then scowl when you take a look, that is unless you drive a Merc and look like the bloke above. Everywhere else I have ever been the cheeky look or smile is a part of life, nothing seedy about it. That's both ways as well.

I agree though being a leering blatant perve is another thing altogether.

Me got in trouble the other day.

Walking around McMahon's point, a good looking chick walks by.

Missus: "did you see that great looking girl?"
Me spoke too quick: "no, I didn't even see how beautiful her rack was".

If alone: perv away! If with the GF, it's like the sun: never stare directly...

pierrec45 said...

Me got in trouble the other day.

Missus: "did you see that great looking girl?"
Me spoke too quick: "no, I didn't even see how beautiful her rack was".

Ah prairie ****!!!! I've been caught out like that meself with Mrs Poodle

I was always told 'that its ok to have an appetite as long as u eat at home" and I am happy to live by those rules.

What about the flip side,girls having a good old look at us blokes,how does that make you feel.
I'm at an age were its the older cougers like 55 plus that want to take a look,sucks really its a wake up call to myself,hey bubby I must be aging

Back on topic,I'll always have a second look if she's a stunner,but will not look at a girl that's the same age as one of my daughters, that's just wrong in my book.

Poodle said...

pierrec45 said...

Me got in trouble the other day.

Missus: "did you see that great looking girl?"
Me spoke too quick: "no, I didn't even see how beautiful her rack was".

Ah prairie ****!!!! I've been caught out like that meself with Mrs Poodle

I used to date a bi girl; one day when we were at the beach a stunner walks past in a skimpy bikini. I naturally take a look at her just as my girlfriend looks at me. Instead of telling me off, she looked at the stunner herself, sighed, and said, "Don't you just love the beach..."

adolf said...

I don't feel the need to perv or stare at hot women. The key is to surround yourself with beautiful women.

I work in a medium sized advertising agency and am surrounded by some very stunning women. It's just part of my daily life.

I still enjoy looking, but when you see so much good stuff around you everyday, you kind of get blasé about it, and there is no need stare, compare and feel creepy about admiring a woman who looks good.

It's called smelling the roses isn't it - it's all healthy.

Something really wrong with ya! I managed a large swimming pool for 15 years never stopped looking admiring and commenting about the good looking ones for as long as I worked there![}:)]
It is a state of mind…….. do you perv on men???? Maybe you need help!