have cowbell and prepared to use it.

i really should get mixing with your mind. a lot of people that know what they are doing (like yourself) have suggested it to me.
one thing that has helped immensely for me,
there is a studio in the states (weathervane) that records mainly indie bands and gets in top producers from time to time. they provide all of the raw tracks for download from the bands they record along with session sheets etc. i use those to practice mixing on my home pc. it's shown me so much because i get to see the way they layer the tracks during the creative process and get to hear what a raw track should sound like. it's been invaluable.
my only issue wth the studio is it isn't at my house.

we've been collecting gear for nearly 20 years now. a lot of it secind hand. so with time and patience we've got some incredible bargains. picked up a $5000 compressor once for $1000.
the music man amp is "allegedly" the amp the guitarist in powderfinger used to use. when they got their major deal they all upgraded their gear. we grabbed it in the back room of a guitar shop in brisvegas years ago. apparently no one wanted it, probably wasn't shiny enough.

the amp we used yesterday is a 1950's bogen tube PA from ebay that has a fender mod done to the preamp. cost $150 sounds excellent. i modded a bigmuff and a small clone and they seem to get the body of work now as well.
yesterday was fun, we tracked the main guitar part with the jazzmaster through the bigmuff/small clone bogen into the musicman cab,
then used the jagstang to give us a double track for the right side during mix. then got the guitarist to do some whacky choppy sonic youth sounds for some extra grit in the song for the interludes and middle 8, ended up using the DS-1 for that after we tried a few other distortion pedals. we had tried the 2nd guitar part before and it didn't fit but yesterday everything was firing.
we've still to finish the studio fully, the rear rack needs some further wiring and we need to label the patch bays. *that might make thing easier*, also need to make up some extra patch leads for mixdown routing.
i'd also like to make up some transformer boxes to add some more joy to the group buss and master buss on the console.
the console also has a midi section that if we hook up will allow us to control the daw and forget the keyboard mouse.
i never forgot your advice that gear doesn't need to be expensive to sound good. it's so true. we judge everything in the studio by it's function and it's sound. if it doesn't tick both boxes it's traded for something else. have some vocal tracking to do soon and i'm going to throw up an sm57 beside the vocal mic to see how that goes.
i reckon everyone should have a studio. even if it's just to listen records and cd's or play xbox.