TriHikeSail said..Also my son is addicted to gaming and hasn't helped me a minute on the boat, he hasn't the interest.
Been there, done that. Laptop and mobile internet at the cabin table, totally blase about what's happening outside of the cabin or screen. Hard to get his attention, needed to shout for help. Same situation with a grounded yacht at Christmas holidays: parents tried to free it off the sand, later I helped with deploying the anchor, the father followed my instructions re: motoring off, this way or that way. Later the son popped his head out to see what was going on.
But OTOH my son loved the swimming, fishing, campfires and walking along the national park trails from the jetty. Just not the sailing part. But it is still bonding. Otherwise they grow up fast and there's no bonding: you have to do something together.